Can I Get Your A.I.D?
Am I Disloyal?
I'm in the midst of making a MAJOR change away from a MAJOR belief that I've championed for the past 15 months.
While loyalty is one of my favorite things about myself, as a mature man, I must let common sense and purpose AID me in making the best decisions available to me.
Each of us can get on shaky ground when it comes to making major decisions. Sometimes, we let all manner of past and future and tangential matter enter the decision making process. All these possibilities can stultify us, choke us into inaction. And this is especially wasteful and even cowardly when it's clear that action is required.
My question: Am I Disloyal if I decide to move completely away from a former belief, a passion, an obsession of mine if there never was a written contract, no contract at all except a gentlemanly understanding and adventitiousness. There was never any exchange of moneys (except my paying for a service)
NOTE: The reason I ask is that I've observed a pattern of elitist disrespect towards me and some of my work. In my understanding, that's untenable in a healthy relationship. Indeed, it's unhealthy, period. At best, it's a lopsided relationship. Would YOU like a lopsided relationship? If so, you can have mine! :-) I want more balance in my life - I have no further need of lopsided things.